Please take the time to read this thought provoking article on how we sometimes miss the boat when raising our kids for “success.”
If you are in any kind of position to influence a child (parent, grandparent, older sibling, foster parent, extended family member, preacher, teacher, coach, church youth worker, neighbor, etc.), consider how you can incorporate these three questions into your conversations with a child.
1. Who tells us who we are?
2. Where do we want to go with our lives?
3. How do we want to get there?
(click on the link below to read the article)
via The Three Most Important Questions You Can Ask Your Teenager | Michael Mulligan.
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I wish I knew these questions when raising my daughter. Thank you for sharing this article.